Relationship Counselor

If you have had a break up and you were the only one person who was false, I am sure you are wondering what you should do restoring trust in relationship getting your ex back to you. don’t worry guys, there is always away out of any problem even after an affair. Most people say that an affair should end a relationship up at the first day uncovered. Once again, don’t worry I will tell you how to restore trust in relationship and get your ex back after all. But, first of all you must stop cheating from today and later.

I believe that there is a reason always when people do something. May be you have a strong reason, but still you must throw it out of your mind so that you can switch your brain into the positive side. It will take time, but you must do it step by step in small thing first. Show her that you have changed, that you really want to fix everything. I tell you not to expect anything now, because she is still on fire now. It is not a good time to talk or saying you are sorry even thousand times, it will be useless, trust me.

During of the process you should ask to yourself why you involved an affair meanwhile you have married or a relationship with someone. There are many reason, I think. That’s why you must find it out and lets we fix it slowly.

While doing it that, start change you habit. If you have a habit going out at night, you must stop in now and try doing something useful such as read a book, play piano or watch your TV. If you have a habit of having an online chatting, try to stop it and do online activities sufficiently.

If you are married it would be easier to implement, but don’t worry, I am sure there is good price of every action you have done. Keep trying to show her that you are different person right now and she can trust you more than ever. Do not forget to say that you are really sorry about your fault, you must do it regularly so that she will get the light in your eyes. Look at her eyes deeply while saying it, do not blink you eyes and say it in low intonation, then lets see her reaction. If it is fail, do not fall into deep black hole depressing. Keep pulling your head up and try again next time.

Restoring trust in relationship after affair takes time and energy, please prepare of a worse thing than before. But you must have a courage to restoring the trust in you relationship or you will lost her sooner or later. Therefore you must do it immediately without giving up.

Finally you need must have strength of fight the people’s argument about affair. I start a fighting arena of restoring trust in relationship after affair, and you must proof it to them that ‘there is a will there is away’ is still on its place.